We are talking about sex… or, well, the lack of it or at least the lack of exciting sex.
When you aren’t getting it, it is easy to imagine the worst and jump to conclusions. But… what if it’s actually something really simple?? What if you could fix it in the next 10 minutes???
Follow along and over the next couple of weeks as we talk about the possible answers to your troubles, and some simple ideas on what you can do to get things back on track.
Last week, the subject was tiredness. Feeling exhausted often means you aren’t in the mood and the more you are tired, the less you feel like getting it on!
Today we talk about another real reason you might not be having sex…
Number TWO – You Miss Each Other
Really? You live together, you see each other every day! How the heck could you be missing each other??? It may sound silly, but it is probably one of the biggest reasons people drift apart. You may see each other… but are you actually spending time together? Good quality time? Think about it. When was the last time you had a date night?
Do you remember what it was like when you first got together? You would go out places, have loads of fun and then get home and want to rip each others clothes off. Sometimes you didn’t even get all the way home!! Right?? Don’t you wish you could go back in time and be like that again?
Planning a date night could be the answer here! Give yourselves a chance to reconnect with one another.
Firstly, turn your phones off then get together and plan some dates…
- Snuggle up in front of the fire.
- Organise a night away together.
- Have a picnic in the backyard.
- Recreate a date from the beginning of your relationship.
It doesn’t have to cost the earth, just make some time to be alone and enjoy it!
You could also start some traditions. Things that you do on a regular basis and really make the effort to continue doing. Doing something special to celebrate an anniversary is a really good place to start. Every year for your anniversary you could go out for dinner, go on a trip together, or write letters to one another. Make sure it is something you both really like to do and whatever you decide to do, stick to it.
Just because you have been together for a while, doesn’t mean you should stop dating. You should never EVER stop dating each other! Time is the most valuable gift you can give your partner.
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